“The only way to get what you really want is to know what you really want.
The only way to know what you really want is to know yourself.
The only way to know yourself is to be yourself.
And the only way to be yourself, is to listen to your heart.
The Universe”©Mike Dooley, http://tut.com
So, what does all that mean to you? If you believe in something and you listen to what it tells you, then you should go for it. I agree that not all of what your heart tells you should be a go, at all times. Everything has to work together in synergy to make sure that all can work properly. Your thoughts have to follow your feelings and your feelings have to understand your beliefs and once all that makes sense, you can put actions into all of what you feel is right. It is important to thoroughly analyze how you perceive things to happen, so it all can manifest itself to you in the long run. If your thoughts are not aligned with your beliefs, there will be a broken link and something will not go the way you expect. You will then wonder what happened as you thought you were headed in the right direction. The answer may just be that you failed to see what was missing in the overall picture to make everything work like a well oiled machine. Just look at all this process like a new born baby. From conception to birth, the embryo lives in the belly of her mother for approximately 40 weeks. In these 40 weeks, anything can happen. The parents just pray that the baby is and stays healthy for the next 10 decades. However, things unfortunately bad happens during the 40 weeks that is out of anyone’s control.
Unlike your thoughts, you can control the way you think, act and believe. You can focus on ONLY accepting the great things to happen in your life and it will all depend on you to make sure they do happen. Allowing conflicting thoughts to come into your mind can confuse the Universe in helping you making your great dreams a reality. You then wonder why things happen the way they do despite how hard you work. Whatever you do, even when being the luckiest person alive, you will still face difficult challenges. It is up to you to making these challenges a learning opportunity and moving forward no matter what. If you fail to learn from them, you will never progress and always feel like life is always against you. Thinking this way is a guaranteed way to walk towards the path of failure, as life do not discriminate anyone. It will only attack the ones who are weak in nature, who falls down and stay there permanently. Not you, me or anyone else will hit harder than life. However, if you pick up the broken pieces and get up, look at life straight in the eyes and say: “You can hit harder than that” and get back on your tracks, life will find you to be a waste of its time and will go look for someone weaker. You know what you’ve got, so go out there and show your true colors. No one else will ever be able to do that for you.
Dr. Dan Amzallag, PhD, MBA, CLC
Author/Inspirational Speaker/Life Coach