“It’s time you step forward to claim whatever it is that you want from life.
Just remember, the gate keeper who will give it to you is the same gate keeper who has kept it from you, gorgeous.
The Universe”©Mike Dooley, http://tut.com
You really have nothing to lose, do you? If you don’t try, the answer or result will always be null. If you don’t ask for it, you are sure to always get a NO. If you ask, you have a 50% chance of getting a yes, which are better odds than 0%. People are afraid to ask thinking that they will bother the person, or seem demanding, or needy. It is important to also make sure that the way you ask for something doesn’t appear to be either needy, or desperate or demanding. You need to figure out a way to make them want to give you with whatever you need. You need to show appreciation for whatever they may do for you, even before it even happened. This way, they will feel the need to want to help, as you already thanked them for it. Avoid feeling entitled when asking for something, as the millennium generation are living their life with this feeling of entitlement. You need to give it up once and for all. No one owes you ANYTHING, so start living life with being grateful and appreciative.
So go out there and start asking for things, in the right way of course. Always make sure to give back as well, as nothing comes for free. If someone helps you, it is important to give back. Also, the way you deliver your request is a must when asking for something. You will deal with many who just take and take and never are willing to give back. Watch out for these people. They seem like they are the type of being there for you when you need it but they are mostly vampires which will drain your blood until nothing is left and will let you rot in hell until they find their next victim. Listen to your inner voice when dealing with people like that, as they are like a virus. Thank God, there are not too many out there like that but watch out for yourself. Be vigilant and always pay attention when encountering these kind of people. Protect yourself at all cost and surround yourself with people who will always want you to be the best you can be.
Dr. Dan Amzallag, PhD, MBA, CLC
Author/Inspirational Speaker/Life Coach