“One of my favorite things about time and space is that absolutely NOTHING can ever happen there that can’t be seen as a blessing in some wonderful way.
The Universe”©Mike Dooley, http://tut.com
Everything in life happens for a reason, both the good and bad. We feel unfortunate when we are plagued with diseases, or financial distress or anything else related that brings more challenge into our life, especially when we didn’t ask for it. We wonder what have we done, or the typical “Why me?” question. Sometimes, bad things happens to good people and it is, as I’ve mentioned many times before, TOTALLY out of our control. Now, there is some ways to minimize the bad things from happening into our life such as thinking positive, feeling upbeat, living life, letting ONLY positive thoughts from entering our mind and accepting life as it is. There is no way we can control every single outcome on this journey we call life but it is possible to alleviate the level of the misfortune we will experience all through our life. If we put work in things that means a lot to us, we can figure out ways to make things better for ourselves.
I agree that when dealing with difficult challenges in life, the desire to abandon ship may come to mind at times. Some of these moments may occur repeatedly all through a lifetime but it is really up to you to take a step back, breath, relax, and analyze the issue in more details so you can find the solution that fits the best for you. Stop looking around for answers as everyone is willing to give you the wrong one. It is easy for everyone to advise you on doing something because they are aware that you are the ONLY one who will have to deal with the outcome of THEIR advice. Stay away from these people at all cost. Do not mention ANYTHING unless you are 100% sure they have your interest at heart. Not many ever do.
Dr. Dan Amzallag, PhD, MBA, CLC
Author/Inspirational Speaker/Life Coach