“Whatever it is you want, however you want to have it, no matter why you want to have it, you can have it faster if you can first be happy without it.
Sneaky, clever, foxy, wry –
The Universe”©Mike Dooley, http://tut.com
You hear many say: “When I make more money, I will be happier” or “when I get a new job, i will be able to afford better things in life that will make me happier” or “when i finish my degree, I will find a better paying job and will be able to feel more accomplished and happier”. All what these conditions brings into your life is unhappiness. Never wait for something to come for you to feel happy. What if all of what you read above doesn’t happen, means you do not get to finish school, or get a new job, or a better paying job, will you just end your life? Absolutely not. So why add these conditions today for you to feel happy today? I agree we do want the best things in life, and be able to afford whatever we want, but do not make these conditions a priority for you to live a happier life. Just live the life that you have today, without any conditions or restrictions. This is definitely not the right way to live.
The sooner you start realizing that life is not about what you can get, because unfortunately for many, life doesn’t always happen the way we expect it to happen. AS long as you can accept that fact, you will start living without any conditions, because whatever happens, happens! Also, it is possible that once we accept the changes that life throws at us, better outcome will happen. The Universe has always better options for you, especially when it sees you make progress daily, by taking small steps towards your destination. Any small step in life is always better than no step at all. So never wait to live your life based on the “if I get this or get that”, but live your life as “I will life this way or that way” REGARDLESS! This will be the beginning of getting whatever you want, however you want to have it, and no matter which way you will get it. Try it and see how that works for you!
Dr. Dan Amzallag, PhD, MBA, CLC
Author/Inspirational Speaker/Life Coach